{"id":5841,"date":"2024-12-03T17:31:31","date_gmt":"2024-12-03T17:31:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mathiasrabe.com\/?p=5841"},"modified":"2024-12-03T18:56:11","modified_gmt":"2024-12-03T18:56:11","slug":"how-long-to-chat-online-before-meeting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mathiasrabe.com\/de\/how-long-to-chat-online-before-meeting\/","title":{"rendered":"What is the Recommended Duration for an Online Relationship before Meeting In Person?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Short answer: Three messages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Long answer: Do you want a relationship with your phone, your laptop, or a real person in real life?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not a fan of online dating, but I understand it’s popular. If you\u2019re looking for love online, for whatever reason, don\u2019t waste too much time. Meet in real life as soon as possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A lot of men think they need to \u201cwarm the lady up\u201d before meeting in person. That\u2019s just overthinking or a lack of confidence. Successful men don\u2019t waste time writing endless messages or investing in someone they haven\u2019t even met.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s a simple approach: after three messages each, suggest a quick call. You\u2019ll get far more information from a short chat than from days of texting. If you like each other and live in the same city, keep the call to 10 minutes max and suggest meeting in a couple of days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In person, you\u2019ll quickly see if their photos were taken years ago, from their most flattering angle, or after a Photoshop marathon. You\u2019ll also know if there\u2019s any chemistry\u2014something no app can predict.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One more thing: during the early stages of dating, your phone is for setting dates only. Period. Anything more and you\u2019re basically dating Siri.
I learned this from Corey Wayne, tested it extensively, went on a lot of dates and found an amazing person – most of it without using online dating. Try it out, thank me later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To be more successful in dating, feel free to attend my free coaching format<\/a> or start 1 on 1<\/a> right away!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Short answer: Three messages. Long answer: Do you want a relationship with your phone, your laptop, or a real person in real life? I\u2019m not a fan of online dating, but I understand it’s popular. If you\u2019re looking for love online, for whatever reason, don\u2019t waste too much time. Meet in real life as soon as possible. A lot of men think they need to… <\/p>\n

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