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<\/p>\nYou have a first date with a woman coming up? Maybe you\u00b4re excited about it, because she seems to be someone special. Therefore, you want to make sure she will like you? Or you didn\u2019t have a date in a while and just don\u2019t wanna mess it up? Alright, let\u2019s get you ready!<\/p>\n
There are several principles to keep in mind within the field of dating and attraction. Mostly these include character traits, that are required, if you want to be successful with women. Ideally you really develop them, not just pretend to possess them. Let\u2019s look at how to apply the most important ones on a first date, in this post starting with:<\/p>\n
The most important of these character traits is confidence. In some cases, I also like to call it your strength. Being confident means being certain about what you want, what you like and who you are. That involves being able to communicate that clearly. Instead of acting insecure for example.<\/p>\n
One way to be able to portrait that on a first date; is to use flirting, teasing, banter. Like calling her out, use humor in between during the normal conversation. At the same time, you don\u2019t necessarily need to be funny. If that\u2019s jut not you, that\u2018s absolutely fine. And in general, don\u2018t try to be a clown or to entertain her.<\/p>\n
It\u2018s just important to spark that flirty vibe with her, as early as possible on the date. Especially the first one. To stay out of the friend zone and to set the right mood. Also to show, that you\u2019re not intimidated by her looks. Maybe she is also cheeky herself and\/or gives you little challenges.<\/p>\n
You can do that by being a little cocky. Like \u201eYeah, I\u2018m used to people not listening to me, because they are impressed with my good looks. Or when you talk about the importance of protein in a healthy diet – \u201eOf course, how else would I be able to maintain these mountains of muscles\u201c. Naturally, that approach works especially well, if you don\u2018t seriously mean any of that. It also works especially well, if you\u2018re not the model type, have a \u201ebaby face\u201c like mine or you\u2018re fit, but not the biggest guy in the room.<\/p>\n
If she is surprised how well you are able to read her thoughts, say \u201eYeah, I know everything.\u201c Or \u201eI\u2019m omnipresent\u201c – whatever works in the moment and will get the both of you to be playful. It\u2019s okay to be a bit stupid. Just relax. Or\u2026 if you have a thick accent, \u201ebrag\u201c about your skills in speaking a foreign language. So overdue it and also include your weaknesses. To make sure the vibe is playful, instead of really bragging or trying to impress her all the time.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s also great to use banter. To confidently say \u201eI\u2019m afraid it won\u2019t work out between us, if you\u2019re a dog person. Because I\u2019m a cat person. Or \u201e\u2026if you like vanilla, but I like chocolate.\u201c Or. \u201eI know you\u2019re only using me to keep you warm.\u201c etc. Just aim to turn the game around. Usually the guy is trying to qualify himself. Switch it to letting her qualify herself.<\/p>\n
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More examples? Okay: Call her \u201emodest\u201c, if she seems to be bragging about something. Try to twist things she says. If you pay attention and have some experience, she will give you all the material you need for that. But make sure to punch up, not down. It\u2018s a form of teasing. It\u2018s not about nagging or putting her down constantly. Just act like you would do with a close friend. Given that you don\u2018t nagg and putt your close friends down all the time of course.<\/p>\n
One or two ideas can be enough to spark the right vibe on a date and then you just go from there.<\/p>\n
If she tests you, and she will, stand your ground. Don\u2019t let her push you off your center. If she calls you mean for example, simply agree. The more confident you appear, the more she will test. To see if that\u2019s just a show you\u2019re putting on.<\/p>\n
Talking about agreeing – don\u2019t agree with everything she says, just to make her like you. At some point, I started to welcome chances to disagree from time to time on a date. As a chance to show confidence and being able to stand my ground. Just dance to your own tune and when in doubt, choose the strongest course of action.<\/p>\n
Of course on a physical level the principle of confidence also includes your body language. So just stand straight, shoulders back and down and hold your head up high. If you sit in a restaurant, just lean back, spread your legs wide, open up, feel comfortable and show that.<\/p>\n
So if you want my help for your personal challenges book a 1 on 1 coaching session with me<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
You have a first date with a woman coming up? Maybe you\u00b4re excited about it, because she seems to be someone special. Therefore, you want to make sure she will like you? Or you didn\u2019t have a date in a while and just don\u2019t wanna mess it up? Alright, let\u2019s get you ready! There are several principles to keep in mind within the field of… <\/p>\n