You want to approach a woman — but instead, you wait.
You scan the scene. Not the right moment. Too many people. She looks busy. Maybe later.
That maybe later is training you to hesitate.
The Myth of the Perfect Moment
If you’re waiting for the perfect setting, vibe, or mood – forget it.
That moment rarely comes. And even when it does, you’ll still find a reason not to act.
It’s not about finding the perfect how.
It’s about knowing your why not.
Why is there this invisible wall between you and her?
Why can’t you go for it now – instead of regretting it later?
A calm mind doesn’t come from waiting.
It comes from clarity.
Real Life Is Messy – Go Anyway
Most women won’t give you a clear invitation.
Doesn’t mean they’re not open – it means you have to lead.
If you hesitate, you lose the window.
Waiting feels safe.
But it’s not.
It’s expensive.
“Not taking a chance hurts more than hearing she’s not interested.”
(from my Approaching Anxiety Cure Guide)
Do This Instead
•Act before your brain kills the moment
•Use everyday situations – not “ideal” ones
•Don’t search for permission – bring intention
You don’t need perfect timing.
You need enough understanding to stop waiting for the perfect moment to approach a woman – and enough strength to move anyway.
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